i hate it when people change, some idiot somewhere said "change is good" but more often then not, change is 99% for the worse.... friends change in a matter of months... people you have not seen for years show up and u cant recognize them. meeting old friends sometimes gives me a sense of foreboding... sometimes i dont even want to meet them. =P
how can character be such a fickle thing? Your character defines you, makes u who u are.. how can it change every day? some people have multiple characters (no, not personality, thats a medical thing... ) they show themselves to be somebody to the world. but turn out to be a completely different person underneath.. =(
some people change gradually before your eyes.... an accessory here, a haircut there, a slip of tongue here and there, and VOILA! you dont know them anymore... some change in your absence. someone you thought you knew and liked, becomes the complete opposite just because you arent there....
maybe a slight twist in your personality to help others is ok.. but what you think is cool, may not be so... what you think looks good on you dosent really cut it .
WHY CANT YOU BE ORIGINAL AND TRUE TO WHO YOU ARE??
"All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward."
Ellen Glasgow
"some people have multiple characters (no, not personality, thats a medical thing... ) they show themselves to be somebody to the world. but turn out to be a completely different person underneath."
ReplyDeleteYeah, that's a pretty true part but you know, there ARE some times when you have to show the world what you aren't underneath just to get by. Once you open up yourself COMPLETELY, you're a blank canvas with no control over it by yourself. People paint you with all sorts of colours and never let you put a drop of it on your canvas yourself.
Wow...plus the problem is that once you see some old friends in a new form...thinking of how close you were at one point makes you feel even worse
ReplyDeletesigh.. sooo true guys!
ReplyDelete@twopolar :)- hmmm u have a point.. i guess a little bit of urself is supposed to be kept hidden.. but not everything rite??